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"Just like being gay or being a lesbian, not everyone is a swinger. You either are, or you're not. Society has tried to force many swingers to be totally monogamous, and has failed miserably. Swingers are propelled to meet others, not just on a one to one basis, but to socialize with more than one person at a time. Swinging however, is not an 'action' but rather an attitude. You do not have to 'share' partners to be a swinger, or to be a part of this lifestyle community. You just have to feel it.

This Community to us is more than just 'recreational sex'. It's a lifestyle, no different than that of being gay, transgender, or a lesbian. It's totally innate, and a part of us from the very beginning of life; it's not a choice but rather an expression of who we are. We have existed since the very beginning of time in all societies and countries. We have just been supressed, and told that we need to be monogamous by the society at large.

Your journey into this lifestyle is not something that you can learn. Rather it's an unlearning process; that is, you're unlearning all the things society and/or religion has programmed you to be. By associating with other like-minded people, you will soon become comfortable being the way you were born. Yes, we did say born. No one can 'sell' you this lifestyle; no one can make you a swinger; you just simply have been this way.

Welcome Home!!!"

Copyright 1987 - 2001 Toni and Glen. Congratulations to Toni and Glen who received the Lifetime Lifestyle Achievement Award at Chicago Adventure and Erotic Fair 2001. The plaque reads: Chicago Adventure, Inc. The Chicago Adventure and Erotic Fair 2001. This Lifestyle Achievement Award Presented to Glen and Toni W., September 22, 2001, For your deep commitment and dedication to the Lifestyle.


What is swinging!!

Swinging Etiquette

Advice To Women In Swinging

The Ten Commandments of Swinging

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Questions about our clubs/community

A New Couples Advice to "Virgin" Swingers

The Vision - The Community

Social Origins of Swinging

Our Two Cents - Toni and Glen

The Beginning

A New Couple's Review of Club H

Is Kink OK?

Adultery, Polygamy and the Bible

What Swinging Means To Us

The Way We See It - Key Note Speech Conclave '97

How To Survive Swinging

Suggestions for Enjoyable Swinging

Where I Am At - An Article By A Swinging Minister

Longevity

Open Minds vs Closed Minds

Isn't It Funny!!!

How To Have Fun At A Swinger's Dance Social

How To Plan A Swinger's House Party

Our Visit To The Caribbean Reef Club

Types of Swing Clubs

Swingstock 2003 - A Paradise Camp Out

Advice To Single Men

Soap Box - Single Men Are Not Swingers

Sexually Transmitted Diseases Information

Swinger's Terminology and Definition

Today's Alternative Marriage Styles: The Case of Swingers (Research Results)

Books We Recommend You to Read


A Guide To Recreational Sex by Patti Thomas

The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers
The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers

The Naked Truth about Hedonism II: A Totally Unauthorized, Naughty but Nice Guide to Jamaica's Very Adult Resort
The Naked Truth about Hedonism II: A Totally Unauthorized, Naughty but Nice Guide to Jamaica's Very Adult Resort

The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People
The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People

Click Here If You're a Swinger

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