This Community to us is more than just 'recreational sex'. It's a lifestyle, no different than that of being gay, transgender, or a lesbian. It's totally innate, and a part of us from the very beginning of life; it's not a choice but rather an expression of who we are. We have existed since the very beginning of time in all societies and countries. We have just been supressed, and told that we need to be monogamous by the society at large.
Your journey into this lifestyle is not something that you can learn. Rather it's an unlearning process; that is, you're unlearning all the things society and/or religion has programmed you to be. By associating with other like-minded people, you will soon become comfortable being the way you were born. Yes, we did say born. No one can 'sell' you this lifestyle; no one can make you a swinger; you just simply have been this way.
Welcome Home!!!"
Copyright 1987 - 2001 Toni and Glen. Congratulations to Toni and Glen who received the Lifetime Lifestyle Achievement Award at Chicago Adventure and Erotic Fair 2001. The plaque reads: Chicago Adventure, Inc. The Chicago Adventure and Erotic Fair 2001. This Lifestyle Achievement Award Presented to Glen and Toni W., September 22, 2001, For your deep commitment and dedication to the Lifestyle.

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