Toni/Glenn, My wife and I attended our first Club H dance on Sat, Feb 12. It was a terrific event where we got to meet great people, and tap into a world that will immensely improve our sensual life. I was so inspired I wrote the attached article which you are free to print if you find it suitable. Please indicate the author as simply J.P. I'll look for you at the next dance and hope we'll meet soon.......JP

I write this with doubt that even the most well-crafted words can capture how amazing, how hugely incredible, my first encounter with the community of Club H was. Several days prior to the event, I had mentioned to my wife how I had a feeling that with this community I would finally be arriving among “my people.” A special group of people who believed that expressing sensuality with people in addition to, and along with, their partner is not only healthy but an adventurous way to live life. A group of people who are similarly “sensually liberated.” The truth turned out to be not far off from that feeling.

It dawned on me how uncommon the people I met Saturday night are. If you look at it this way - 4 million people in the state compared to the two hundred people that were in attendance that night - you can appreciate the uniqueness of everyone at the dance. And what a dance! I’ve never seen, nor experienced such sensual, erotic dancing with so many fun-loving women. The range of fashion choices that night was highly enjoyable to view. I really appreciated the boldness of some of the outfits and didn’t have any problem with the more conservative/elegant look either! Although we experienced a slight bit of awkwardness when first arriving, getting a drink, and then wondering “what now?,” we became more comfortable and had increasing fun as the evening wore on.

I’m still wondering how this happened other than intervention by divine providence. In those awkward moments after arrival, we stumbled around eyeing tables until my wife suggested we cross the dance floor and find a spot on the other side. As fate would have it we directly approached a table with a couple similar in age, and look, to my wife and I. For some reason they seemed as new to this as we were and thus a couple we could related with. We couldn’t have been more right.

We hit it off quite well from the get-go and were fortunate enough to not only spend time with them but to meet two other couples. All of us were able to talk and dance with each other for the remainder of the dance. At one point I told one of my dance partners how odd it was erotically slow dancing with her and seeing my wife doing the same with her husband. How refreshing especially in light of there being no jealousy. Quite the contrary, it was very much a turn on. I personally want more erotica in my life, more erotic dancing, more human touch, more adventure, and even something as basic as more friends. Everything indicates I have come to the right place to achieve all of this for myself and for my wife.

As I indicated that members of Club H are special people, I realize too that by default, my wife is one of those rare people that I was so fortunate to find. Where would I be now if I hadn’t married someone so open minded? Certainly not at the point where I feel a grand journey is only just beginning. We are both so excited about what positive effects this will have on our marriage. With the “first experience” we had after the dance and the possibilities of what adventures and delights are to come, I have never been so convinced of the longevity of our relationship. I believe the direction we are heading will improve our relationship by keeping our sensual adventures never-ending, and by increasing our skills in communication which this lifestyle requires. I expect our adventures will bring us not only new, common friends, but a treasury of wonderful experiences together that we can share for a lifetime.

My one concern is that spending more time with other “sensually liberated” people will make our logic so prominent in my mind, I will forget how rare we are and how cautious I have to proceed around “normal” people in my daily life. Yet it is amazing to me that I have finally found a community that to me takes not only an adventurous approach to sensuality and sexuality, but a sound and practical approach. Between the thought of what the future holds and the experience we had with the couple I mention that night (that’ll have to be a different article), I’ll have a slightly devious smirk on my face for days to come - if only the people at work knew why! Also, I’ll be thinking to myself - “maybe I have crossed the desert, maybe I have arrived among

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